‎‏Living Through the Unthinkable: Palestinian Mothers Bearing the Cost of Gaza’s Destruction

‎‏Gaza Herald_ In Gaza, survival has taken on a cruel and distorted meaning. For many Palestinian mothers, staying alive means continuing to breathe in a world where their children have been killed. Through social media posts and firsthand interviews, four grieving mothers share their stories, testimonies of loss so profound they reflect the reality faced by nearly every family in Gaza today.

‎‏Israel’s ongoing war on the Gaza Strip has produced immeasurable human suffering. Nearly two million Palestinians are enduring relentless grief, displacement, and trauma, as entire neighborhoods are erased and families wiped out. No home has been left untouched.

‎‏For a mother, losing a child is a lifelong wound. In Gaza, that pain has multiplied beyond comprehension. Children are not taken one by one, but in groups—entire families killed in seconds, futures erased in a single strike.

‎‏On May 24, pediatrician Dr. Alaa al-Najjar lost nine of her children in one Israeli airstrike. Her home was bombed while she was working at Nasser Hospital in Khan Younis, desperately trying to save other wounded children. Stories like hers are no longer rare, they are tragically routine.

‎‏Words will always fall short of describing what these women have endured. Still, some mothers have chosen to speak, refusing to let their children be reduced to statistics. What follows are the stories of four Palestinian mothers, drawn from their own words and lived experiences, offering only a fragment of the catastrophe Gaza has suffered since October 2023.

‎‏Buried Alive: A Mother Loses All Four Children at Once

‎‏Poet Alaa al-Qattrawi lost her four children in a single act of destruction.

‎‏On December 13, 2023, Alaa was at her family home in central Gaza while her children were staying with their father in Khan Younis. When Israeli forces invaded the city, their father was arrested, leaving the children trapped with their grandmother.

‎‏Alaa’s daughter, Orkida, managed to call her mother in terror. She said Israeli snipers surrounded the house and they could not escape. Soon after, Israeli soldiers confiscated the phones, cutting off all contact. For four months, Alaa heard nothing.

‎‏Eventually, news came that the house had been destroyed.

‎‏Writing later to Orkida, Alaa recalled the last moments she heard her daughter’s voice, her promise to wait, her effort to protect her younger sister. When Israeli forces withdrew from Khan Younis in April 2024, the truth emerged: all four children had been killed, Yamen, eight; twins Kinan and Orkida, six; and Carmel, three. Their bodies had remained beneath the rubble the entire time, unreachable.

‎‏Alaa speaks of the surgical scar left from giving birth to her children, a mark she barely noticed for years. After their deaths, it became a constant reminder of what she lost, a physical ache mirroring her grief.

‎‏She writes that Israel stole everything her children would have grown into, their school lives, preferences, dreams, friendships, faith, and future, replacing them with four graves.

‎‏After a ceasefire was announced in October 2025, Alaa reflected bitterly that while the bombing may have paused, the brutality of occupation remains unchanged.

‎‏Under the Rubble: A Mother Pulled From Death Without Her Children

‎‏On January 15, 2024, Aya Shamma was home with her three children, Yaman, seven; Nasser, five; and baby Rayan, just 51 days old, when an Israeli airstrike hit their house as they slept.

‎‏The building collapsed. Yaman suffocated beneath the rubble. Baby Rayan was hurled into a neighboring building by the blast. Aya and her son Nasser were pulled out alive by neighbors.

‎‏Aya’s grief is unending. She writes that if tears could bring children back, hers would have already done so. She remembers believing that if her heart was still beating, her son’s must be too, until reality shattered that hope.

‎‏She describes Yaman as thoughtful and gentle, a child who once wondered why the world could not live peacefully. She tried to protect him from cruelty. Instead, cruelty took his life.

‎‏Aya writes of her longing, her impossible wish for her son to return, even briefly, even in a dream, so she could hold him again.

‎‏Stolen Childhoods: A Family Erased in a Moment

‎‏Aya Hassouna lost her husband and two small children on August 9, 2024.

‎‏Displaced from Gaza City, the family was living in a tent in Khan Younis. Her husband Abdullah was playing with their children, Hamza, four, and Raghd, two, when an Israeli missile struck nearby, killing all three.

‎‏Aya survived alone.

‎‏She wakes each morning in a tent once filled with laughter, now silent. Hamza’s friend Malik comes daily, asking when Hamza will return. He cannot understand death, only absence.

‎‏Aya refuses to say her children are dead. She says they are alive with God, spared further suffering.

‎‏At night, she hears another child crying in the camp and thinks of Raghd. Sleep has become impossible. All she has left is endurance and hope of reunion.

‎‏“This war,” she writes, “has stolen childhood itself.”

‎‏One Grave for Twenty-Three Lives

‎‏Asma al-Mughari lost 23 family members when Israeli warplanes bombed her home in the Bureij refugee camp on October 17, 2023.

‎‏Among the dead were her two children, Aya, six, and Abdullah, five, along with her parents, siblings, nieces, and nephews. Their bodies remained under the rubble for 29 days before being buried together in a single grave.

‎‏Asma chose not to see her children’s bodies, preserving the memory of them as they were in life. On holidays, she writes messages to them, imagining them dressed for Eid, not on earth, but in Paradise.

‎‏Reflecting on images of children killed in Gaza, Asma contrasts a world where children are tucked safely into bed with the reality Palestinians face, where childhood ends under rubble.

‎‏After a speech by a U.S. president honoring Israeli soldiers, Asma wrote that the world had failed her children and thousands like them, exposing a moral emptiness that leaves grieving mothers disgusted and abandoned.

‎‏Grief Without End, Justice Still Denied

‎‏Though the intensity of daily killings has slowed following ceasefire announcements, the damage is irreversible. Gaza’s people live atop mountains of rubble, carrying grief that will never fade.

‎‏The future remains uncertain. Reconstruction is blocked. Accountability is absent. The families of Gaza are left to mourn alone.

‎‏These mothers’ voices stand as acts of resistance, refusing to let their children be forgotten, refusing to let genocide be reduced to numbers, and insisting that the world confront the human cost of Israel’s destruction of Gaza.

‎‏Their testimony remains. So does the truth.